Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Heyward Hall McAllister with the following comment:
Heyward Hall McAllister secretly married my great-grandmother in 1887. The couple kept it a secret for 5 years until 1892, when the news was splashed created a scandal in New York society. McAllister then abandoned my great-grandmother and they divorced 3 years later. I am writing a book about my great-grandmother.